What do you do when the person you love the most, repeatedly breaks your trust?
What do you do when you realize you cannot depend on the person you were banking on?
What do you do when the one watching your back is the one stabbing you?
Do you strike back?
Is it possible to take a deep breath and not strike back?
Is it possible to not strike back, stay committed, and offer the other cheek because you know it will happen again?
Is it cowardice or betrayal to call it a day?
Is it stupididty not to call it a day?
So many questions and no answers. These are rhetocircal questions – the kind where the answers are obvious but they still tempt you to give an opinion.
Under these circumstances, I would let the perpetrator know that I am aware of the machinations and that I have been hurt. Further, I will let that tormentor know that I have changed my opinion of him/her and that he/she is no more in my good books. I may not, however, resort to an eye for an eye. My act will put an end to my persecution, although, it may not be of any consequnce to the tormentor.
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Well I think though the person won’t figure in my good books but I will try and stay in his good list. I will help him when he needs it most and then get away from him. I will make him realise what he has lost…….